Sunday, January 28, 2018

The Story of Matias & Dalma

During one of my first weeks in San Luis, we received a text from another Elder in the city with contact information of a less-active member who had just moved into our area.  So, we visited her, shared a quick scripture and left her with our phone number and an invitation to call us if she needed anything from us.  About two weeks later, she gave us a call and asked us to give a blessing to her boyfriend’s son (basically, her step-son). Upon arriving to give the blessing, we met Matias and Dalma. Matias, the son we were asked to bless, had recently quit his job because of the grueling hours and meager pay.  He explained that, at his job, he had too much solitary time, as well and it was making him depressed.  He needed a little boost with a blessing of comfort. 
            During this first encounter with Matias and Dalma, we got to know them and Dalma told us she used to be a Jehova’s Witness but stopped associating with them when she was about fifteen-years old.  Matias told us he was Catholic, that he had been baptized and confirmed but hadn’t practiced his religion in years.  They also told us that they had a desire to gain a better relationship with God, to get married, and to increase the quality of their lives.  We explained our purpose as missionaries and told them a little bit about the Priesthood power we hold.  At this point, they accepted a return appointment with us for the next week.  Elder Hobbs and I left that home and as we walked away, looked at each other and said, “They are prepared.”
         
   
            
             Our return appointment and first lesson with them was a little crazy. Due to experience as a Jehova’s Witness Dalma knew a lot about religion.  We taught them about the Restoration, Prophets, the Priesthood, the Apostacy and of course, Joseph Smith. We covered a lot of material but we knew they understood everything because at the end of the lesson Matias said one of the most powerful prayers I have ever heard.  We knelt down and he just pleaded with our Heavenly Father to show them the path he and Dalma should follow.
            In our next lesson with them, we taught them about the Book of Mormon and we extended a baptism date to them but Dalma rejected us.  Although she said they weren’t ready, she did say they had already “felt something.” Then, we taught them about the Plan of Salvation and once again, the lesson went really well. Dalma asked us a ton of questions and we were able to answer all of them by using the Book of Mormon.  We realized that they were asking so many questions because they wanted to understand even the smallest of details and instead of bashing with us because they had knowledge from the Jehovah’s Witnesses, they were able to understand even the smallest of details.
During our next visit, everything changed. Our lesson was simple: The Gospel of Jesus Christ. Our goal was to establish a baptism date for them and explain the principles of faith, repentance, baptism, receiving the Holy Ghost and enduring to the end. The Spirit was so powerful in this lesson! We had a recent convert join us and testify to Matias and Dalma of the positive changes she made in her life as a result of her acceptance of the Gospel. It was a lesson missionaries dream about. For the fourth time, we extended a baptism invitation and this time, we heard the word, “Yes!!” Before making a final commitment, they wanted to go to church so that weekend we prepared to help them attend church. Unfortunately, on the Saturday night before Christmas Eve, a member of Matias’s family died and they called to tell us they couldn’t attend church with us. I was disappointed but, with faith, we held on.
In the lesson where they accepted our invitation to be baptized I was struck by Dalma’s willingness to share how she had made many small, yet positive, changes in her life. She had seen the effect of daily prayer and scripture reading. She told us she had felt more peace and had a calm feeling in her life. She said she knew it was the Holy Ghost testifying to her that the things we had taught her and the Book of Mormon were true. She told us all of this in English, which made it even more memorable for me. 




         The next weekend, Matias and Dalma were able to attend church and it was amazing to see them there! That week we also tried to get them ready for their baptism by addressing two big topics: the Law of Chastity as well as the Word of Wisdom. They already knew it was necessary for them to get married before they could be baptized but it’s always fun to tell a young couple to wait until after marriage to have sexual relations. Ha ha! They also told us that occasionally, they drink but it wasn’t a problem for them to give it up. So, on New Year’s Eve they drank their last glass of champagne. Then, a few days later, they sent a text to us saying they had made an appointment with the Government of San Luis Providence to get married on January 19th. They had received the answer they prayed for and they were acting accordingly. 
Over the next two weeks we went further into the lessons. We focused on the commandments and the temple. At this point, we realized just how quickly they understood these principles. They riddled us with questions but only because they wanted to understand everything. They had been praying daily as a couple, fixing broken relationships with family members and making the changes they knew were necessary. They even contacted a member in our ward who is charge of family history and they were researching their ancestors. They soaked up all of the lessons so quickly that we almost ran out of information to teach them. At this joint, they had received their answer and made important changes. So, they were prepared to be baptized. As well, Elder Hobbs and I had gained an unbreakable friendship with them and we felt like we’d know each other for years.
The past week has been one that missionaries dream about. We finished the lessons and answered their last few questions. Then, on Friday morning, we got all fancy and headed to the Government building for the wedding and it was an unforgettable experience. Matias and Dalma chose Elder Hobbs and me to be their witnesses at their wedding. So, we were literally right by their sides when took the huge leap of faith to get legally married. Then, on Friday night, the ward members organized a party for the newlyweds and it exceeded our expectations. We ate a ton of food, danced a bit and just enjoyed the night. It was Matias and Dalma’s welcome into the ward.
On Saturday morning, we woke up early to fill the baptismal font and make sure the water was nice and high because Matias is a big boy. We were so excited! A bunch of members and other supporters came to the baptism and everything went perfectly. It’s difficult to explain the feeling of being in the baptismal font with someone in your arms but it’s one of the best feelings in the world. I baptized Dalma and Elder Hobbs baptized Matias. We were jumping off the walls because we were so excited! These feelings were even better than scoring a game winning touchdown or getting an interception in second overtime!
On Sunday, Matias and Dalma were confirmed by the bishopric as members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. Their baptisms and confirmations were two great spiritual experiences that cemented their testimonies.
During our entire experience with Matias and Dalma, Elder Hobbs and I kept asking ourselves, “Why are they so different?” We have decided that God literally prepare them to receive the restored gospel of Jesus Christ and when the time came, they accepted the lessons, understood every principle, acted accordingly and received the blessings that our Heavenly Father has been preparing for them.
Before heading off for their honeymoon, they gave us letter in which they thanked us for the time we had together and for helping them along the way. We shared such a sweet moment together because it was literally the last time all four of us would be together. Dalma said, “You may not realize the magnitude of the change that has ocurred in our lives. So, we want you to know that our feet were tired of walking in search of the truth and thanks to both of you, we have found it. We know the true Gospel exists.”
Words can’t describe the miracle that took place with Matias and Dalma. Simply, it has cemented my testimony even more and I don’t know why I, being as imperfect as I am, was able to be a part of it. This experience is one I will never forget. Matias and Dalma were prepared by the Lord. As well, He chose Elder Hobbs and me, two imperfect instruments, to help show them the way. Truly, we didn’t do anything too special. In fact, we just guided Matias and Dalma and we’ve been the beneficiaries of the results.
“The field is white already to harvest” even in the Argentina Mendoza Mission.

Elder Roderick

Sunday, January 21, 2018

Powerful Prayers and Wedding Crashers

¡Hola!                                                                                                                       
This week we helped a couple more people come unto Christ and we had some fun along the way. So, you can say it was a good week.  Also, on Saturday, it was cloudy the entire day and that was a blessing.
As I think about it, a theme for our week could be the wonderful power of prayer in our work.  We were able to find some more people to teach, which is always a blessing, and the first thing we always do with new investigators is invite them to pray about our message.  Usually, they are embarrassed to pray in front of people or they don’t know how to pray but this week, we had some great experiences with our new investigators as they truly prayed. One woman had just had her appendix removed and she wasn’t in the best shape.  She said such a powerful prayer where she asked for strength to keep going, and then she asked, in the spirit of prayer, if Joseph Smith truly was a Prophet of God who was called to restore the Church of Jesus Christ here on the earth.  It was such a cool moment to see this woman say such a powerful prayer in front of her two children.  Two additional investigators prayed, asking about the truthfulness of the gospel, and their prayers were so powerful because it was obvious they were praying from their hearts.
Lately, we’ve been working with the Miranda Family, who is a family with seven children.  We met their two boys in the street and they have problems with drugs and alcohol but, the other day, they invited us to their house. To be honest, I was a little scared to go with them but as soon as we entered their home, we were treated like kings. During our lessons, there are always about ten people present and they all pay attention to us.  Recently as part of a lesson, the entire family set some goals for 2018 and one of their goals is to help the brothers get rid of their substance abuse.  If they do, they will progress along with the rest of the Mirandas.
This week during our lunch appointment with the Bishop, he called on me to bless the food and he always struggles with my name so he just said, “Elder Freak will you please bless the food?” LOL!  Elder Hobbs and I were dying of laughter!  Then, later in the week we were walking down the street with our sunglasses on, and a man stopped us in the street and asked us, “Are you two the Men in Black?” LOL! Once again, we were dying of laughter.
On Saturday night, one of the members in our ward got married and they had a reception in their backyard and since we helped them prepare for their marriage, they invited us to the reception.  We decided to pass by at the end of our night to say, “Hi” and score some food and piece of cake, just like regular wedding crashers.  LOL! But, we learned that Argentine weddings go on forever, literally until 5 or 6 the next morning.  So, we were able to stop by and say, “Hi” and grab a picture with the bride and groom but we left soon after because the food wasn’t served until midnight.  So, we took an L for the night because all we wanted was a bite to eat and maybe a quick song on the dance floor. But, it’s all good!


Have a great week! 

Elder Roderick